Can I Talk to the Judge About My Family Court Case?
This page provides general legal information, not legal advice. Court rules and procedures can change. A qualified attorney can advise you about your situation.
You generally cannot privately discuss the substance of a pending case with the judge. Case-related information normally must be presented through an allowed filing or in a proceeding where the other parties have notice.
Use the court’s approved channel
A one-sided contact with a judge about a case is often called an ex parte communication. New York Courts explains that a party should not contact a judge about a lawsuit without giving the other side a chance to be present (New York Courts — What is proper conduct in court?). New York Court staff may provide procedural information, but they cannot give legal advice or decide which option a person should choose (New York Courts — How the Clerk’s Office Can Help).
Rules for filings, scheduling requests, emergencies, and permitted communications vary by court. Check the judge’s and court’s current instructions through the state directory before sending a letter, email, or other case-related message.
Read Representing Yourself in Family Court for ways to separate procedural questions from issues that require a formal request.