Can I Change a Custody Order?
This page provides general legal information, not legal advice. Court rules and procedures can change. A qualified attorney can advise you about your situation.
A court can change a custody order when the requirements in its jurisdiction are met. An informal agreement between parents may not change the existing order unless the court approves it.
Start with the current order
Read the signed order and identify the terms that may need to change. California’s court guide says parents may submit an agreement for approval or ask a judge to change an order, and it describes an additional changed-circumstances requirement for final custody orders in that state (California Courts — How to reach child custody and support agreements).
Modification standards, forms, notice, and hearing procedures vary by state and by the kind of order. Use the state directory to locate current official instructions, and seek qualified legal help for interstate or urgent safety issues.
Read Representing Yourself in Family Court for help organizing the current order, later events, and questions to confirm.